NOTE: The show’s been finished for over ten years, but if you are watching it for the first time, don’t read this as it spoils some parts of the last season.
I had this to say after the series finale:
March 31, 2014
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OMG HIMYM. Strangely satisfying. Will say more later out of respect for those who couldn’t watch it tonight.
Only, I never went back and said more. Lately, YouTube has been showing me short clips of HIMYM and I was reminded that Cristin Milioti played the Mother well before her Emmy-winning performance on The Penguin. (And, wow, two very different characters!)
I was invested in the show as it aired, and after watching a few of those clips I went back and found that the series was on Hulu, and watched four episodes of season 9, their last.
I was bowled over by Milioti’s performance, and the way that she and Ted were perfect together was a joy to watch, especially recalling all of the near misses before they met on the train platform in Milioti’s standout episode 16, “How Your Mother Met Me.”
Watching their near-misses and meet-cute encapsulated reminds me a bit of the opening of Up, when we witness one of the greatest love stories ever, and then we get the rest of the movie. That’s more appropriate than I first realized, as in HIMYM we see years of loving moments with Ted and Tracy only to find out she died of an unspecified illness.
The show’s creators always intended the ending they left us with (even filming the kids’ parts years before). I don’t know if I would still call the ending “satisfying.” I do know that Ted was incredibly lucky to have found his true love. In my fifties, having watched many relationships around me, I realize that the kind of do-over Ted and Robin get is something incredibly rare and precious. Maybe I’d be happier with the ending if that came through just a little more.

I saw a quick blurb about this show and thought it would be a good one for my wife and I to watch together. With a six-episode first season it felt like there was an overall arc plotted for at least the two main characters.